Finally i was available by live but somehow my internet or universe didn’t cooperate with me and just shoot me out of the zoom.

Thanks so much for picking my raised hand today, EA! I didn’t want to take up any more precious time on the call, but thought I’d leave my reflections in the comments for anyone wondering how my answer may be a mirror for them. I feel called to do this as I knew for several days leading up to this call that not only you would pick me – but you would pick me first (this is the first call I’ve ever attended!). I was having a big dejavu type moment throughout the whole conversation lol – sorry if I seemed spaced out (I’m also not a morning person!).

3.5 years ago, I started a marketing business, which means I help people to attract their ideal clients / best clients / soul clients – however you might want to refer to them! Naively, when I first began, I thought this would just involve using “the tools” really well (like the social media platforms and other digital tools as well as my copywriting skills).

But I learned very quickly that attracting the souls you’re meant to co-create with is all about your ability to express the essence of who you are – and your courage to express your authentic truth. Then those who resonate with your authentic truth will know you’re the one they want to work with.

It’s easier said than done for most, because expressing your real truth means that, invariably, there will be perfectly lovely, smart, accomplished people who don’t agree with you. Like, really don’t agree.
And that can be really hard to process. It’s possible you’ll repel people to the same degree that you attract others (even if you don’t think your views are all that different or controversial!).

As a result, many business owners (or, people with missions) stay small or stay quiet so that they don’t have to deal with those discomforts. I’m still battling with this myself (which, of course, is why many of my clients are). But staying small and quiet comes with a price – for yourself, and for the collective. It also means you’re not truly accepting every authentic aspect of yourself – which means you’re rejecting parts of yourself/source energy/the universe. Which means something will materialize as out of alignment.

For me, this is materializing in the external like feeling like I don’t belong anywhere (I have a handful of true friends but they are scattered all over the world. My family is lovely but no members are on the same wavelength as me therefore don’t really understand me and don’t really know how to go about it). I’ve lived in four different countries, and in many places in those countries. I’ve had a wonderful time exploring but nothing’s really ever “clicked.”

I’m excited for that “clicking” feeling happening as I start to accept all of who I am on the inside – so then it’ll be reflected on the outside. I hope this perspective helps someone.