My daughter says her father plays tricks on her at night
I really don't know where else to turn at this point, but I am wondering if someone can help me. My children disclosed 2 years ago that their father touched them underneath their clothing, while they were sleeping. The social workers pointed fingers at me and the case was closed. My daughter is now saying that her father plays tricks on her while she sleeps. She is only six and is very afraid to talk about anything, even with me. I am so lost with this situation. My children have to go to their dads every other weekend because it is the law. My children are being silenced by the law.
@beeejane I can try to help you. It's been a while since I did something like this-- that kind of help; but I will be 100% effective. No worries-- I only do special kind of meditation and recite mantras. Let me know if you want to give it a go! 😉
@beeejane My heart goes to you and to your daughter. I really wish so badly that I could do something😔❤️✨🙏
@beeejane I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I think social workers and law enforcement are generally well-intentioned, but sometimes, they'll make the wrong judgments and that ends up making things worse.
The only thing I can think of would be contacting "The Steve Wilkos Show." It's one of my favorite shows; they give people polygraph exams to determine if someone is guilty of molestation or other crimes. If they fail the polygraph, then there's significant evidence that can be used against the person in Court.
I'll leave the information for contacting the show below. Of course, I think it's more likely than not that they won't be able to have you on the show, because they get so many requests, so you might eventually have to get law enforcement involved, but you'll have to decide if you'd trust them to do the right things. Based on your experience previously, I can't blame you for not really trusting the authorities.
Here's the form you'd have to fill out to make a request to be on "The Steve Wilkos Show":
https://stevewilkos.com/polygraph/
@beeejane I'd recommend to call or online chat with RAINN https://www.rainn.org/resources RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country. Telephone hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673) https://hotline.rainn.org/online
Hello,
I just want to say that I’m sorry you and your children are experiencing this. As a mom, this just tears me up inside.
In addition to seeking assistance as suggested above I wanted to share an energy symbol that has been infused with a portal of energetic frequencies that will help kids feel safe. There is a recipe and you can ask your children to fill in the recipe as well. I like using these energy symbols under my children’s bed or they carry it in their backpacks went out and about. When you sign your name or a “love mom” it will infuse your love into it as well.
You are a strong mother to be going through this and your children are blessed to have you advocate for them. 💜
@shivanitarksis THANK YOU SO MUCH for this!!! I am so grateful to you 🙌❤️🩷✨
@beeejane i can help, too! There is a protection that you can do for yourself and practice with the girls when they are with you! Its called a maharic seal. It is a source energy protection. I tell my girls to make a silver star inside a circle in the middle of their forehead connect to earth and then connect to the stars.
I suggest journaling what they tell you. I also suggest finding a counselor that will come into the home for family therapy. It is ok if you dont vibe with certain counselors, but def find another one if you have any doubt.
I am so sorry this has happened and will do my best to give advice as I have been through this more times than I like in one lifetime let alone the others I have lived.
Love and light
I am so sorry to hear this my heart goes out to you and your family. This might be a redundant suggestion but coming from a similar situation when I was younger I think it could have helped if I had been told specifically that it was not okay for anyone (dad, mom, brothers, sisters, family, friends, neighbors, strangers) to touch me and especially in these places (say the name, point to the places, say common other references, or whatever other people may call it) and that if it did happen I needed to not be scared to tell someone. I think even before that really explaining the body and it's names and private parts and how we all have them and that it is ours and not anyone else's to touch or "play" with no matter what. Parents should be very specific about this and having these conversations in a very blatant way to avoid confusion. Children can comprehend so much more than most adults believe. Molestation and assault is far to common especially with family members to not be having clear conversations about this with our children. I agree with the other person that said to get her into counseling with someone that you trust and/or highly referenced as well and let the counselor know what the suspicions are so that they can document anything and she is supported.
@cosmicmel I was thinking the same... That stuff hurts. And it's super sad that it takes place at all in human society... but it happens...