Manifesting/contracts

Dear EA,

Sometimes manifesting doesn't make sense, does it? Suppose you want to manifest a relationship with your dream partner. But in your contract you were going to meet him anyway. Then it will come your way without you having to manifest it, right? Or just the opposite. You have chosen in this life that you remain alone to learn certain lessons from it. Then you can manifest what you want but it doesn't come to you. Then why would you manifest?

Love Petra