How to help my friend?

Dear EA,

I have a friend (40) who has wanted children all her life. However, she has never had a long-term relationship, so she is now trying with a man who wants to donate.

After a year they now go to the hospital for assistance, but after two times it still doesn't happen.

My friend is getting more and more devastated by all the setbacks. She has completely adjusted her diet to gluten-free and avoids bad things such as alcohol as much as possible, but it doesn't work.

In my opinion it depends on her mental state. She gets very hung up on every negative event and it seems she cannot let it go. Also, now that she is taking hormones it seems like she is developing a depression.

I feel like things are not working out because of her constant negative mental state and I would LOVE to know how I can show her how she can uplift her mental state so she can feel confident about having a baby. I feel like she is focusing only on the negative experiences and she is creating this negative reality for herself.

I’ve said this to her a few times and she rationally understands that she needs to focus on the things she is grateful for to raise her vibration, but she can’t seem to do it. Could you please help me to clarify this to her and pull her out of the negativity? She is open to energy theories, but very sceptical about the existence of ET’s. 

Love you so much, thank you.