advice needed !

Understand completely. Family dynamics are so difficult during this time particularly. I have been through this but with my teenage child years ago. You need to protect yourself from the negatively 1st. Some use the bubble technique but there are many. Find one that suits you. My go to is : image you are surrounded by a mote. You are the castle. Crank up the imaginary bridge to cut off anything from crossing the mote. It goes away instantly for me. 

Your mother thinks she is helping you. Don't forget that she loves you and is trying all that she knows. Try and keep conversations between you two, to topics that you're both comfortable with. Your journey and her journey are 2 entirely different journeys. Even if she doesn't respect that yet, you still can. 

Please never 🙏 exit because of another. There are ways to escape if it comes to that. Other family, friends, women in crisis centers, counseling, etc...

You obviously are on this site because you are already aware of yourself . I encourage you to try and make yourself tolerant to her antics with self protection until you can leave. You're young and have a purpose beyond your mother. Stay strong and carry a piece of black tourmaline to help deflect negative energy 

🙂😆👽🙏Yoww famelyy You doing absolutely perfectly! all is well and you have lots of good stuff that you prayed for earlier! thanks for breathing nicely Enjoy your day guruji👽🙏

@fayedollar thanks, but after this message yesterday had a major fight with her and thankfully closed (atleast from my side) that toxic cycle , but now she's giving me the silent treatment and i'm left confused and feeling a little lost because now what? i've closed this toxicity and am making some progress in other areas, but i feel the future seems so uncertain - and then i feel i'm falling behind- because everyone around me is settled , married, earning money and i'm here rebellingbecause i want more , i want to study at 30 and am currently building my social media (for my business) and am sort of financially dependent on them. Is it normal to feel like a failure? or like maybe i am being too difficult ?

1. I think you might find reading up on how to handle yourself while living with a narcissist quite interesting. They use the silent treatment as a tool to instill guilt. This is the be strong part. You're only 30. You have so much to look forward to. Do you work? I do think that feeling like a failure is common at your age. You are NOT! There is a crazy, beautiful world emerging that you will fit in comfortably. 

@aashna941 Keep it up! Until moving out that is. Some more techniques? Cut cords everyday and refill with Unconditional Love is the standard. I  came up with the NC shield. Do you know the noise canceling headphones? Similarly your NC shield transmutes hatred towards you into none. It dampens all negativity. It is not totally away, but now it's very easy to handle. It doesn't hurt anymore, it becomes easier to stay the neutral observer.

Would it be possible for you to burn any sage in and around the house? At least in every 8 corners in the house. If possible also the corners of each room, plus the entrance and exit doors.  Also burn some outside the house. Good luck.

Other "methods" to deal with negativity. Just call an angel

Would it be possible for you to burn any sage in and around the house? At least in every 8 corners in the house. If possible also the corners of each room, plus the entrance and exit doors.  Also burn some outside the house. Good luck.

Other "methods" to deal with negativity. Just call an angel

@fayedollar I really hope this happens soon because i'm tired now! really tired!

@lighthealer_arkie doing this but since we live in the same house her presence makes me feel so anxious, like i'm unsafe and unstable =. I try to cut cords but the feeling is so overpowerig at times

@lighthealer_arkie funny thing- my mum hates it when i sage my space(even if its just my room) , she hates the smell and dosent let me do it!  sometimes i use the smallest piece to sage, that too when she's not around

Did you try to ask permission to remove any entities from your family members' aura. Maybe you are such a bright light, attracting entities like moths to a flame, but your aura is so strong now. So they try to reach you through your loved ones.

@lighthealer_arkie never really thought of this.. how do i go about this?

@aashna941 First connect, cut and clean your system like described above. Then telepathically contact the higher self of your mother, and ask permission for a clean-up for the highest good of all. The answer will come to you in a few seconds. It should be a clear yes or no. If you receive nothing,  then assume you have permission. You can also use a rod for the yes/no answer.

Proceed by doing exactly the same to your mother (connect, cut, clean). I then always create a portal somewhere on top of the aura. Use your lightsword, or whatever tool you have to direct all entities toward this portal into the Light. They should be attracted to this portal. Ask archangel Michael for help. Finally, If you feel all entities are gone, then create a shield of blue light around your mother. Blue keeps entities away.

If you still have energy, proceed with other family members. 

In the end you MUST clean yourself. Let Source Light come into you aura to replace all current energy that will be directed to Earth. Good luck!! 😘

@aashna941 Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it takes a lot of strength to open up about something so challenging. 💖✨

Living with family, especially in a situation where energies clash, can be incredibly difficult. Your mom’s emotional volatility isn’t easy to navigate, but the fact that you’ve remained calm and set your intentions clearly shows your resilience and growth. 🌱💪