Fear of Dying and Children
Hello everyone! I know I got real quiet. I've been going through some major trauma purging. One that's just popped up is this:
When I was little, I hyperfocused on death and was anxious about dying and the infinite cosmos. It still hits me sometimes, but now I'm more open to it and approach it from a place of curiosity. But my son just turned 10 and today he's been telling me he's scared about dying. I'm not really sure how to talk to him about it! I told him I'm here for him and we'll make sure he eats right and stays healthy and gets plenty of exercise. That we'll avoid dangerous situations and keep him around wonderful people who will help him have fun so he doesn't have to worry. But I was wondering if any of you have any thoughts you might add, because it's still a struggle for me. And it hurts my heart to see him struggle the way I did.
@estelle I can imagine how difficult it is for you to see your son struggling with this thought but I think being there and giving him the assurance that you are always there for him and expressing how much you love him will be more than enough. I completely understand how you feel because I am a mom too and at one point in my life I thought I could spare my children from all the pain and hardships of this world but I realized for them to grow and learn they also need to experience those hardships and difficulties.
Sending extra love to you and your son🥰🙏
@estelle Hi, I'm thinking maybe tell him there is nothing to be afraid of at all.
@rainyangel616 Absolutely right!
@estelle my take is to go deeper into the spiritual journey together, if and when he's comfortable. Doesn't always have to be together, but I'd start by asking why - what exactly is it that he's afraid of? And then go from there and look for answers. Death isn't real, and there's a reason why they want us to be afraid of it. Dolores Cannon's work is amazing for understanding death, or watching Theresa Caputo on YouTube to see the mediumship readings. There's so many others.
I wish I could explain my thoughts better but I haven't slept well in a week 🤣 I feel allll over the place right now, I'm sorry.
But I so badly wish people weren't afraid of death. That fear is so deep that it can affect every single area of our lives.
Don't stop digging for the answers that resonate ❤️
@estelle Totally natural. We all go through this in one way or another. I’ll share my perspective. Maybe it will help. I see it as this… we have soul family in spirit. That’s our home. All joy and bliss in spirit. We incarnate in the physical to execute a mission or to “experience”. Source experiences though us. We are all Source just different soul sparks as Source fractals, in order for Source to experience. This physical incarnation on Earth is temporary. We are not from here. We have Galactic star system roots where we are anchored with our Soul Tribes. My case, Lyra. Lots of other Starseeds from other star systems here. We are in a temporary human vessels to anchor in 5th density energies to support Gaia in her ascension and to liberate the humans oppressed and suffering on Earth through the Draconian oppression and economic slavery systems in place currently. This is just a pit stop 🛑 along our journeys though eternity, multidimensionally. We exist on several planes at the same time. We all have higher selves rooted in higher dimensions. And guides that lead us during this incarnation. We finally did it. After thousands of years being stuck here in a karmic loop. I don’t think we truly understood what we were getting into when we volunteered to come here but we’re doing it finally:). We are ascending to the 5th dimensional plane of existence right now and there’s no stopping it. We woke up early to ground the energies into the crystalline grid. We are the second coming of Christ in that regard. We all are. Christ consciousness. Gods plan ❤️ . We’re all sparked from Source and rooted in the Angelic realm as divine creators. As starseeds we are “way showers”, “light workers” and “light warriors”. After this incarnation we are going back home to chill with our loved ones on a higher plane, in spirit. We are joyful, blissed and keep our personality. We just remember everything else when we pass onto spirit. Every incarnation we’ve had. Home to our beloved family of light, the Angelic realm, Mother Father God, Divine Spirit , Source. Hope this help a little. How to explain that to a child? I’ll leave that to Momma. You got that covered ❤️. Maybe Lily has another perspective that could help a child to understand. Tapping my Sister here. @lilynovastarseed 🙂